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GRAVEYARD
Notice of an itinerary change—
Well, shucks! You died. This might be a familiar experience for you, maybe not. Either way, you're probably feeling distinctly less dead now, with any injuries you previously obtained now healed. Grogginess still clouds your mind, but in a way that's reminiscent of waking up rather than anything nefarious.
... Not too unlike when you first arrived here, actually. Namely, because you wake up in what looks to be an airport terminal. Again! It's not quite the same as the one you were in before, but you're not free of airports yet, it seems. To be specific, you're in the baggage claim area, in the most literal sense: lying in an open suitcase on the carousel, going round and around (or, if you were unlucky, you might've tumbled out of the suitcase as it slid down onto the conveyor belt). You might want to hop off at some point.
If you're worried about your belongings, you can find them either on your person or in another suitcase chugging along on the belt. Once you retrieve everything, there's a new area to explore. Plus, reunions to be had with those who died before you, or with the four Hosts you haven't seen since the first week. And should you be worried about the living side, there are various screens around the terminal, allowing you to still watch what's going on over there.
► GRAVEYARD RUNDOWN
- You are able to see the living (and their public network posts).
- Weekly effects are still active.
- Any personal items you didn't give away before your death are with you in the graveyard.
- You can still use your curse items on the living, with the usual caveats of avoiding OOC inconvenience (e.g. no effects that would last into Thursday night).
- The graveyard has its own set of NPCs (Maestro, Bora, Libeccio, Scirocco). You are no longer able to contact the living side's NPCs via audiences, but you can talk to the other four once again.
- If you get injured and would like to be healed (within reason), the graveyard NPCs can heal to varying degrees, so feel free to handwave tapping them until you got one who could help you.
- You may handwave the NPCs explaining the basics to you: you're alive again, but you're unable to regroup with the "living" side due to lacking a mode of transportation to the airport terminal where they are, and a barrier is blocking people from leaving the old-fashioned way. Trying to book a ride is a work in progress for the entire graveyard.
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Recipient: Jacopo
Message Content: Opening Your Marriage: Staying Together and Transitioning to Polyamory
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Posted XXX 5, XXXX
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Exploring non-monogamy and polyamory is more and more common as people question and reject traditional monogamous models of dating and love.
But what about those people who are already in a long-term monogamous relationship, people who are married?
Read: Why People Choose Monogamy
Opening your marriage is an increasingly common occurrence. People who are monogamous are becoming polyamorous, and staying together while they transition their marriage to a polyamorous one.
Polyamory is not just about choices made by single people about the way they want to date and love. Happily married couples are choosing the option of opening their marriage.
Read: Polyamorous Marriage: 8 Common Questions
Deciding to Open Your Marriage
Are you in a monogamous marriage and thinking about opening your marriage to polyamory?
Many married couples are choosing to open their marriage and explore swinging, non-monogamy, an open marriage, polyamory, and a variety of kinds of non-monogamous relationships. You can transition to a happy open marriage from a monogamous marriage too.
Hope this helps :)
Day: Thursday
Recipient: Jacopo
Message Content: Okay. Am I the asshole if I call out my roommate's self-centered behavior? I live in a communal space, where everybody except C shares freely. C got a good job through connections and is able to spend freely on themselves, spending little on household items, groceries, etc. They say they're broke every month, but I've seen their takeout containers and amazon boxes, so maybe it's a spending problem. Worst of all, when we are low on food, C just disappears for a few hours and comes back instead of cooking with everyone.
I've told C that they're being selfish and they should start considering other people, but it goes in one ear and out the other. I offered to help budget but they don't listen! They barely spend more than $400 of their $2000 a month on groceries for the house; the rest goes to their lavish lifestyle while the rest of us suffer. I just want them to pay their fair share.
AITA for asking them to be fair??
Object(s) Mailed: One (1) serving of cooked pasta
Day: Thursday
Recipient: Jacopo
Message Content: RELATIONSHIP WORKSHEET
(Yes / Maybe / No)
1. My partner listens to me, validates my emotions, and encourages me when I need them to.
2. I like when my partner and I talk about the mundane details of our day.
3. I like to schedule certain times of the day or week when my partner and I can reflect on our relationship satisfaction.
4. I feel close to my partner when we spend time together no matter what we're doing.
5. I feel close to my partner when we are engaging in a meaningful conversation.
6. I feel close to my partner when we're cuddling, kissing, or having sex.
7. I know my partner respects me when they let me rest when I get home from work.
8. I know my partner respects me when they ask about my day.
9. I know my partner respects me when they give me their honest opinion.
10. I feel disconnected from my partner when they ask about what I'm doing if I'm on my phone.
11. I feel disconnected from my partner if they don't answer me whe
Object(s) Mailed: broken vacuum cleaner
Day: Thursday
Recipient: Jacopo
Message Content: Hey that was a really sweet message. I appreciate you reaching out. And I feel the same. You're definitely a lot of fun and attractive but we aren't for each other. Haha I will absolutely say hello if I ever bump into you.
And I've told everyone I know that the Peanuts movie is total shit. Hah